I didn't start this because of a study. I started it because I'd just lived it.
When I came out of bypass surgery, what I wanted more than anything wasn't another pamphlet or another diagram. I wanted to talk to someone who'd already walked the road I was on — someone a few weeks ahead who could say "yeah, that happened to me too, and here's what came next." I couldn't find that person. So I decided to become it.
I built this channel and guide on instinct. I just knew it would help, because I knew exactly how alone it felt.
A randomized controlled trial of 185 men recovering from bypass surgery found that those who received regular peer support — contact with someone who'd been through it — had fewer emergency-room and doctor visits in the first 12 weeks of recovery than those who didn't.1
The researchers were careful: peer support wasn't a cure-all, and it didn't erase the emotional lows. But the core idea held up — having someone ahead of you on the path makes the recovery measurably easier to navigate.
That's all this is. I'm three weeks ahead of you. I made it. I'm turning around to light the path.
— Kyle
1. Colella TJF, King-Shier K. The effect of a peer support intervention on early recovery outcomes in men recovering from coronary bypass surgery: a randomized controlled trial. European Journal of Cardiovascular Nursing. 2018;17(5):408–417. doi.org/10.1177/1474515117725521
Other places to turn.
A few trusted organizations for peer support and recovery — each opens in a new tab.
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Mended Hearts
The nation's largest cardiac peer-to-peer support network — trained visitors, local chapters, and an online community for patients and families.
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AHA Support Network — Bypass / CABG
An online community from the American Heart Association for bypass patients, families, and caregivers.
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American Heart Association — Cardiac Rehab
What cardiac rehab is and why it matters — the program I tell everyone to say yes to.